Sign That You Are Losing Yourself In Your Relationship
When you love someone, it is possible to begin taking up some of their characteristics. It sometimes makes you adapt to some of the things that they like and those they do not like. However it is important at times even in a long-term relationship to maintain your own identity. As much as you may have a lot in common it is important to maintain some identity. Otherwise you may end up creating a different person from the one you knew before meeting your lover. If you are not sure you are becoming this kind of a person, read on to make sure you know where you are.
You may find that you are all about us, but nothing for me. There are people who love to talk about themselves and others who will talk about everything else except themselves. If you are constantly stating about we and have nothing at all about me, that could be a sign that you are lost in your relationship.
Something else that will give you a sign that you are getting lost in relationship is when you cannot tolerate thing you would not before. Things you would not have before meeting your partner. If you want to know whether you are changing, look at the things that you never used is like at all and see whether you are shifting your morals. It may look normal to you but it is never ok to tolerate things that are not ok. Whether you are drawn to your partner or not, it is always good to keep what is morally right.
Another sign that your relationship is making you lose your identity when the stuff for your partner is more important than yours. If you have moved in together, look around and see whether you have brought in anything belonging to you initially. If you find that you have not brought in any, then it means you are looking at your stuff as less important. Another thing that can tell you whether you are losing yourself in a relationship is when you agree to everything automatically. It is not every time people agree to everything automatically.
You can also understand when you are not holding to your identity when you know there is no me time as far as you are concerned. Even when you think you are genuinely an extrovert, you still find that you need to have some me time. If you find that you do not need such a time, you could be moving towards losing your identity. It is important is you can get some time alone just for you. Without that you can lose your identity.